不管你们怎么交谈，怎样书信往来，这都是不够的。如果你们总是不见面，那一定会不可避免的渐渐疏远。尽量经常见面，不要总是在预想的情况下见面，比如节假日等。一定不要总是由一个人放下手中的事情去见另一个人，这一定会导致日久而生怨。惊喜的旅行也是加分的好办法。别忘了常常查看一下打折机票的航班。

    BE INVOLVED: 参与

    Try to be involved as much as possible inyour partner's life. Build a hobby that youcan both share. This way you can keepsomething in common that you can discussand work on throughout your long-distancerelationship. Play online games together orarrange to watch a TV programme. This wayyou can enjoy something together eventhough you are miles apart.

    试着尽可能地参与对方的生活 ......