小心观察他的迟疑。“迟疑可以理解成紧张也可以是不诚实，” 吉尔默说，“迟疑是在考虑要说什么而不是一种自然反应，”如果你的男朋友仅仅说好的，但是却说不出他到底在高兴什么，有多高兴，很有可能他在掩饰自己的真实感受。

    His Behavior

    行为举止

    Don't compare his reaction to what you imagine yours would be if you were in his place. "The men we spoke to on their wedding days were less animated than their wives," says Molloy. "But they described the same feelings of happiness and elation."

    别将他的行为和你想象中他应该有的行为进行比较 ......