“我开始听摇滚，关心艺术和音乐会。第一次遇见他是在大二时的一场音乐会上。”回忆起那个时期，罗斯的脸变得明亮动人起来。那时，她是真的认为自己找到了完美的男友。他是当地一个著名乐队的主唱，而且两人也有很多共同的兴趣爱好。她觉得那时自己有点像所谓的“果儿”。“那很完美，我的童话故事就此拉开了序幕。”他很迷人、也很睿智，他让罗斯感觉自己如同公主般备受呵护，她也一直这么认为。生活如此甜美，罗斯享受着自己的青春，每时每刻活动都安排得很满，从看现场演出到文化活动到时兴的咖啡馆。“我每天都很忙碌。我在学习之余的闲暇时刻总会有音乐会、活动或者聚会要去参加。我那时的生活有一点疯狂，但我爱极了这种方式。”

    Life Changed Me

    生活改变我

    'But with time, a frenzied life also became boring.' Her face darkens slowly as she follows with the story, 'Some time after I graduated from college, going out every night didn't feel that fun anymore, I was tired of it. One day I was supposed to stay at home but my boyfriend was playing at a fancy club that night, so I decided to go and surprise him.' Rose found him kissing another girl. That night she cried herself to sleep, and the next morning, after a huge argument, they split up. He had another girlfriend for more than three years, and had been dating her and Rose together all those months. She didn't want to be 'the other woman.' 'I was devastated. My whole world was torn apart.' For the first weeks she didn't feel like eating, or sleeping or going out. Then it became a routine. ......